Wednesday, February 1, 2012

Should I send my mother a card?

My mom isn't talking to me because I will not tolerate her BF's behavior. To make a long story short, I want to send her a Mothers Day card because her BF wont let me talk to her on the phone. Her BF comes to my house and puts me down in front of my kids and I didn't put up with it. Because of this, my mother won't talk to me and I miss her.

Should I send my mother a card?
Instead of a Mothers day card find I miss you card and include a note wishing her a happy mothers day. Maybe it will open things up for you two. Sounds like her BF is bad news. I hope it works out for you.
Reply:Poor baby, this is heartbreaking. I am very saddened to hear that your mother is obviously putting her boyfriend before you. This is not good, you sound like you are really hurting. I think it would make you feel better if you sent your mom a card. As for her BF coming to your house----what's up with that??? If your mother will not put a stop to seeing him or allowing him to come to your house and verbally abusing you and upsetting your kids.....then you have to take matters into your own hands with this BF. Don't you have anyone who could MAKE this BF not come within 10 feet of you? If you have someone to take care of this BF do it right away please.

Send your mom a card, and hopefully all will turn out well for you, your children and her. Good Luck dear.
Reply:I don't think you should send her a card at all. She is putting her boyfriend before you in her life. It would be one thing if he treated you well, and you just didn't like him, but the fact that he treats you badly and she puts up with that is disgraceful.

Don't send her a card. It might make her wake up and realise that she is doing the wrong thing by her child/ren.

Good luck.
Reply:Please send the card you love your mother and she needs

to know it. I would try to call or contact her away from her

bf and let her know you love her but cannot have

him belittle you in front of your children.

Let her know you miss her and maybe you two can

work thru this.
Reply:Send her a card, it's sad that her daughter is more mature than her and has stopped talking to you, but you can still be the bigger person and tell her how much you miss her in a card.

Good for you!
Reply:If your mom uses computer/internet, then you can also try to send her artistic ecards from http://www.jacquielawson.com or http://www.ojolie.com. You can send her ecards any time you want to express your feeling for her.
Reply:yes, of course. No matter what happens, who you are, where you at, in your live time, you only have ONE MOTHER...!!!!!



Remember the sweet times when you was a small kids!!!
Reply:Please go ahead and send her one and make her day..............she is your mom first and no one can stop you from doing that..........
Reply:Yes send her a card and keep it positive. No need to bring up the arguments or the BF.
Reply:Yes, you should definitely send her a card. She would appreciate that. I'm sure she misses you too.
Reply:I would send her a card if i was you. Maybe that will help with things.
Reply:Absolutely. She needs to know that you still care. Who knows? Maybe she'll realize what's most important.
Reply:her bf's so mean! well anyway, sending her a card is ok i guess.
Reply:that nice!


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