she did the same thing last year. i told my husband and he was like "why would you even care about it, don't tell me you're gonna make an arguement about it with me...if you don't like it then tell her about it."...i feel i just might say something but, then i don't want anyone to say "wow what a b**** " about me eventhough i know they don't like me much anyways.
should i say something and when would be the right time ?
I recieved a card and it has mad and sad?
I think you may just be reading too much into it. She did send a card, which even though it might have seemed impersonal, as long as it wasnt insulting I think it shows thoughtfulness. I mean, she could have chosen not to send anything. If the dynamics between you and your mother in law are bad, however, and you have reason to believe this card was sort of a slam at you or something, then yeah, by all means speak up.
Reply:Sorry, but I think it was a nice gesture for Mr and Mrs Blah Blah Blah to send you card in the first place, especially if they don't like you. After all they didn't have to, you're not their mother, are you?....
Reply:Well I would be alittle upset because my name was not on there as well however I have learned to pick and choose my battles and this is not worth getting into with anyone over..the point is she took the time to get the card,put the address on it,and send it to you, shouldnt matter if it wasnt perfect just be happy you even got one. good luck!
Reply:my sister has never spelled my married name correctly, and my mother still calls my son by my ex's name (which has an s on the end of the same name) who cares? i notice it but dont fret any. i forget things too.
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