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Wednesday, February 15, 2012

Could my wife be pregnent?

we are trying to get pregnent. starting april 28 she started filling wierd she could not explain.then on may 2 she started spotting which has never happend it lasted 2 days and her period does not start tell the 13th of may.she started having diarrea and lower back pain and her boobs looked bigger so we took a ptest on the 5th of may and it was neg. so we tested on the 9th of may and the line was very faint we both saw it.now her boobs are very sencitve but she say it may be from her period. its are first so everything is new to use. thanks for the help. is it a bad idea to get her a mothers day card tomorrow.

Could my wife be pregnent?
If her period is due on 13th that would mean that she is around 11 days past ovulation (dpo) right now. Just so you know the statistics, only 10% of women get a positive pregnancy result at 10dpo. The other 90% of *actually pregnant* women don't get a positive result until much later. However, if you both definitely saw the time, then it sounds very likely.



I would not do the Mother's Day card thing, because right now she is very emotional. And as she said, the symptoms she is feeling can be from PMS as well as from pregnancy. Before her period is the most emotional time, because the body is busy making progesterone .... so I agree that to buy her a pregnancy test to do tomorrow morning (with first pee of the day as it's more concentrated) is a good idea.



Of course, you could get her a gift anyway, and then if there's a line, give it to her as a Mother's Day gift and if it's a negative, save it as a 'just because I love you' gift for another time.
Reply:don't get her a card cos even if she is is anything goes wrong it willbe so upsetting for years to come even if you do have children in the future, any how i would test again in a few days with a different drand test to be sure but i think that she is pregnant aline is a line, but if the line didn't have any colour ie pink or blue depends on your control lone colour then it could be something called an evaporation line, but i am hoping that it is positive have a look on this web site peeonastick.com, it is great
Reply:Sounds like she is pregnant but no i wouldnt get the mothers day card. If she is its still early enough and i hate to say it but it might not last so dont tempt fate. Get her a card next year when you have your little bundle of joy there with you both. Congratulations!
Reply:yea its a bad idea to do the mothersday thing....if you aren't for sure she is preggo.....why don't you buy her a prego test instead?....it could be too early for that too
Reply:try one of the digital pregnancy test have heard they are really good Best Of Luck to you and your wife I would wait on the mothers day card
Reply:how would i know??


It seems like DD's First Mom is backing out of contact again. Any advice?

A month ago DD's First Mom promised to buy an expensive gift for DD's B-day. I e-mailed FM and said she did NOT need this expensive gift and i could offer her other ideas. FMom insisted on buying this gift. Then her car broke down. I know $$ is tight for her and its been a month with no responses to DD's emails.



I asked DD to email her FMom saying that just wishing her a happy birthday was enough of a gift. DD said no. She shouldn't break her promises. I explained that she could have bought you the gift but had to take it back to pay for fixing her car. DD said all she has to do was tell me that, I would have understood. DD refuses to email again cause Fmom and sister have not returned her emails.



What should i do? I've bought her a mothers day card. If DD refuses to sign it should I just sign it and mail it? This is the third time DD's First mom has distanced herself. Should i just back off and do nothing? Should i email dd's first mom? DD is disappointed:(

It seems like DD's First Mom is backing out of contact again. Any advice?
Of course you know much more about your particular situation than you could ever explain in an emails, but this is what I would do:



I'd lay it out in completely clear black and white, DD needs certain, very easy things from the bmom. #1 a b-day card, #2 a phone call at Christmas, #3 etc. Make it sooo easy and clear and next to impossible for her to fail. I'd also explain exactly what you've explained here: keeping promises is important. Don't make promises if you aren't sure you can or will keep them. I would send the card even if DD won't sign it...you and your partner can sign it without mentioning DD's resistence. Keep the doors open!
Reply:She is going to have disappointments through out her life, but what her fmom is doing is not very nice. Go ahead and email her and tell her what she has done. How dissapointed your daughter is.
Reply:I am sorry for what you're going through and can relate to this on so many different levels.



My EX does the same thing to my son. The counselor said that whenever he doesn't follow through on something or doesn't pick him up, that I don't make any excuses. When he filled my sons head with all the things they were going to do for spring break and then didn't show up. It was devasting. The counselor said, "Just give him a hug, tell him you don't know why he did that, and let him know you love him very much."



DD is 10. She is going to realize who she can and can't trust. You are going to have to explain that she needs to watch what people do, not what they say.



This is tough. First mom needs to run things by you. I know I didn't want my son to grow up getting or expecting gifts from people and it sounds like you're the same way. Just tell her in the future, before the holidays or whatever that ya'll can discuss what DD needs. Then she's not to say anything about it until it's a done deal.



I think you've always had a good head on your shoulders and I know you're instincts will come through with the right solution. I can sense that you are hurting for your daughter. Life hurts. Be there for her as you always have been. Help her through this.



You can send a card on your behalf. Let DD do what is right for her. Believe me, no one knows better than DD that this is the third time this has happened.



If it is at all possible, I would seek a few sessions of family counseling. DD needs help. This is a very convuluted situation and it does need to be addressed.



Best wishes. Happy birthday to DD.
Reply:What a mess and this is why I stand by my opinion that open adoptions are head stuffers no offence to you .........



I would treat this like a divorced parent, like torrejon said about laying down certain expectations to keep to commitments

I know that separated / divorced parents do that when th other party doesn't turn up, doesn't ring etc

and that the child will no longer want to see you if you keep letting them down



Good luck with it all
Reply:I can understand your daughter's frustration!



I'd contact mom, and tell her how her failure to answer e-mails is affecting your daughter. Be understanding about the gift, and how hard it must be to disappoint her child, but emphasize that she needs to keep the communication going.



Tell her you are not going to intervene on her behalf again, and that DD is old enough now to have an opinion on the adults she wants to have in her life, and that you are going to back your child.



Tell your daughter that she needs to sign the card, and send it. Remind her that doing the right thing should not be dependent on other people's behavior, but tell her that you won't make her e-mail her other mom again, until mom decides to continue the contact.



Next year, let DD decide whether or not to buy a card.
Reply:I'm sorry your dd is going through this. I don't think I have any extra advice than what you've already gotten. I guess just try to keep the lines of communication open and make it clear that your daughter isn't disappointed by not getting expensive gifts, but she is hurt at no communication. Such a yucky thing for a kid to have to deal with. She's having a rough time lately, poor kid.
Reply:You shouldn't have told DD that her bmom was going to buy her an expensive gift in case things like this happen. It got her hopes up.



If DD refuses to sign it, don't mail it. DD has a right not to have this stuff forced on her.



If this is the 3rd time Bmom has done this, DD is probably getting sick of having her hopes dashed so i would just back away for awhile instead of forcing the issue.



ETA: sorry about making the assumption that you told her about the gifts. BTW, are you sure her car broke down or do you think it was an excuse?


You tell me? please?

I am only a couple days late, but for the past few months i have been putting on weight steadily, peeing like a racehorse day and night, eating everything insight, am so tired i come home from an easy job and fall asleep till morning, i am irritable with my boyfriend at sometimes and can't be with out him others and am so emotional i cried while picking out a mothers day card and every movie i've watched. I keep getting negatives on pregancy tests but some have told me that means nothing. My breasts are a little tender but not overly so. I have never been like this, is it all in my head? I am lost i have gotten my period the past three months, howevers friends say that isn't a sure sign either... help how in the world do i know?

You tell me? please?
Get a dr. appt and get a blood test done.



Best of luck!
Reply:You would know by having your hormone levels checked, and by getting an appointment with a Dr. who can evaluate all of these symptoms.



Make an appointment today. You deserve to not be left worrying about this all the time.
Reply:You really need to see your doctor and have a blood test done. This will let you know for sure if you are pregnant, and give you peace of mind.
Reply:I would head to the doctor for a blood test or scan. It sure sounds like you are pregnant. I wish you the very best!
Reply:blood test/ultra sound is the only way to be sure if you keep getting negative HPTs
Reply:lol your screwed
Reply:ur may be bipoloar so get that checked out
Reply:Unfortunately, these symptoms aren’t unique to pregnancy. They can indicate you are getting sick or that your period is about to start. Likewise, you can be pregnant without experiencing any of these symptoms.



Pregnancy signs include:

1. Implantation Bleeding

2. Delay/Difference in Menstruation

3. Swollen/Tender Breasts

4. Fatigue/Tiredness

5. Nausea/Morning Sickness

6. Backaches

7. Headaches

8. Frequent Urination

9. Darkening of Areolas

10. Food Cravings



However if you want a confirmed answer on whether you are pregnant or not, there are two alternatives that you can seek. The first alternative is to take a home pregnancy test kit one week or so after your missed period. If you are really pregnant, the pregnancy stick will able to detect it due to your high hormones level. Another alternative is to see and doctor and had blood test done.
Reply:First of all, take a home pregnancy test, and if it comes back negative you should see your doctor. It's possible you could have miscalculated your period being due, and sometimes it is just late. Last month, my period was 5 days late, for no apparent reason.



Honestly, it sounds like what you are experiencing is depression. Sleeping all the time, eating more, irritability and mood swings are also symptoms of a depressive disorder. Once they do a blood pregnancy test, if it still is negative, I would talk to your doctor about how you feel, and see if there is anything they can do to help you feel better.





Good luck! I hope you feel better!

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  • What should i say?

    what should i say on my mothers day card i got 1 with record mesage thing on it

    What should i say?
    Thank's for being my MOM,I love you,YOU ROCK!!!!!!!


    Boyfriends Mom?

    Well I guess you can say I have one of those typical military relationship. We have been together for about 7 months and met in training. Anyways, I haven't met his mom and I'm meeting her in 2 weeks. I am going to send her a mothers day card to be on her good side before I show up, but I have no idea what to write... Help... any Ideas??

    Boyfriends Mom?
    How about, a thank you card for raising such a wonderful man, touch on the positive things you like about him and say something like if the way he is is any indication of how you are then I know we will have a wonderful time together and I am looking forward to meeting you..
    Reply:You have a computer you can use so make her a card ... put some nice flowers (ask him her favorites) on the front, and inside write ... You MUST be the BEST mom, because ....(his name) ... is a wonderful guy! THANK YOU! Happy Mother's Day! and sign your name.
    Reply:Tell her what a wonderful son she has.



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    Reply:keep it simple, like "happy mothers day, i'm really looking forward to meeting you!" kinda thing
    Reply:she aint your mother thats his place to side her a card it would be different if you had meet her and she was like a mother to you



    also thats her baby you will never be on her good side



    she may respect you and yalls relationship but thats about it
    Reply:I'm kind of stuck at sending a card to someone you haven't met. Either way if you are sending it write:



    X= bf's name

    Y= bf's mom



    You have made X everything he is to me today, and for that I will be forever thankful. Happy Mother's Day Y!


    After yet another row with my 11 year old son, what can I do?

    His attitude stinks. I know, he is approaching his teens and by design, kids become monosylabic, miserable and non communicative. He is developing a real temper though. I try to be calm and talk things out with him but I dont always manage it, I get tearful and very upset and, rightfully angry.

    He is not left to his own devices, He lives within a structural upbringing, he is loved, cared for and I give him as much of my time as he needs. Peer pressure is of course strong at this time and he has been picking up stuff from school as they all do.

    His dad and I have been divorced for 2 years now and his dad doesnt bother about him, we discuss this however and he has lots of support within the whole family.

    As I sit here I am tearful again. He is out with his friends going off to get a mothers day card and a bunch of flowers. I feel he is doing it because he feels he has to, not because he wants to. I just want to forget Mothers Day.

    After yet another row with my 11 year old son, what can I do?
    try getting him to watch Kevin and Perry at large-he might only be 11 but he is obviously getting his teenage angst early



    that film makes teenagers look ridiculous even to other teenagers and its a good laugh. I got my 13yr old son to watch it and every time he has a teenage moment i call him kevin and it always breaks the negative mood

    try to ignore the bad behaviour and encourage the good?

    I know its really hard but try not to be too emotional because they just cant understand what the big problem is. Save your tears for the 'big' misdemeanours because i am sure there will be some in the future.

    Just try to talk to him when he is in a positive frame of mind, its rare but it does happen :0)

    good luck and dont worry i am sure he will turn out to be a brilliant son at the end of all this :0)
    Reply:Teenagers are always like this, they are moody, they sleep in till 4 pm in the weekend. They are always diff cult, and it's a stage everyone goes through. Now as much as you may think he is getting you a mothers day card because he has to, i would bet that he actually wants to, these sort of holidays are brill ant because it means that teenage boys, who don't want to seem weak by showing that they love their mothers, have an 'excuse'.
    Reply:he will come round he might even be surprising you for 2moz. but like you said it is all part of growing up for him and he WILL grwo out of it and learn how to respect his mother.



    hope all goes well. :)
    Reply:Normal actually



    I got councelsing
    Reply:U should let your child grow naturally.. All that u can do is to take maximum care of him and answer all his questions patiently..Children believe what their friends say and later on analyse too..So they take their lessons themselves .
    Reply:Unfortunate indeed. Dry your eyes. Mummy's little darling has started that dreaded of all times in every person's life, puberty. You will fight with him as I did with my mother, and my father was at home. Some children are more difficult to deal with. I remember with distain that I had suddenly found i had testicles and thought it was the first pair in the universe and as such I was more important and special and no one else was going through the problems I had. He may be overly embarrassed by teasing he gets
    Reply:Oh I know how you feel! My little girl is 11 and half the time she is my sweet little girl and the other half she is well...mean! She is a only child and certainly spoiled so every time she opens up her mouth and mean words come out I take something away. There have been several times I would not let her see her horse and my latest weapon is 4-H. Whenever she opens her mouth to get smart I just say 4-H and then she shuts up (most of the time). She knows I have reached my limit and will take drastic measures.



    My daughter has never even met her biological Father but she has so much love from her family and my husband she doesn't even care. I am a firm believer in Moms being number 1 with their children.



    Please keep you head up and stay strong. I know how you feel with the tears and all but your Son loves you more then anything.



    Set rules and ground him from the things he enjoys. It is not a perfect solution but it helps.



    PS I asked my Dad what to do and he told me it was payback from when I was young. I guess I was a pain too but I grew out of it and I am now a loving daughter and my Brother grew out of it too. It will get better :)



    Good luck
    Reply:Sounds like a familiar story. He wants to be independent and you want a rigid framework for his own good. I remember that. I saw much of what my mother did as unreasonable.

    Negotiation is always the key. Hormones are playing up and probably responsible for the temper but make sure he is not smoking the pipe. That can be responsible for grumpy mornings and can screw up young guys heads. Click below to get some more info.



    xxFJ
    Reply:Wow. How awful. :(



    I'd NEVER treat my mom like that. But boys, are well boys. I never can understand them...
    Reply:My daughter went through that stage as well and the best piece of advice I can offer is to not let it get to you. It is a normal stage and it will pass. Just keep things as they are (he knows he is loved) and he will one day start talking again and become the person he used to be. As for mother's day don't put a negative spin on it....if he really was a nasty kid he wouldn't even bother getting you anything. Accept his card and flowers graciously and don't even suggest to him you think he is doing out of presure or guilt.
    Reply:You have an up-coming marriage, right? Since he has been abandoned by his father, in his eyes he is now "losing" you to someone else and you are his most important and closest confidant. He is most likely afraid that you will be taken from him. You need to assure him that he is not "losing a mom, but gaining a dad". Encourage your fiance to spend one-on-one time with him, i.e. fishing, batting cages, roller skating, movies of his choice, etc. whenever possible.... He needs to form a bond ASAP with your fiance. Once he realized that you are both there for him, he'll feel safe and unthreatened again. Equally important is for you to somehow include him in the wedding ceremony (Best Man, groomsman, usher, etc).



    Take him aside and ask him how he feels, and assure him that you won't be angry regardless of his answer.



    Then make sure you give him a great big hug!
    Reply:As you suspect he is hurting from something, you and his dad splitting up and the lack of contact since from his dad will be really effecting him, I wish I knew what to say that would make him open up to you!

    Is there another family member/close friend who could have a go at talking to him?



    As for tomorrow, it is only one Mother's Day, there are plenty more to come so I am sure you will have many more 'happy' ones to come!
    Reply:How about getting him a 'Big Brother'?



    Edit: I mean a Big Brother from the Big Brother, Big Sister program, or something similar to it?
    Reply:Its not mothers day yet, not for awhile. You sound depressed, why not you both go see shrinks?


    What should i do?

    my g/f of almost 3 years was caught cheating on mothers day. about 2 months ago i had a feeling that she was but she said TRUST me im not... so i did. I took her her mothers day card to her and there he was (and its kinda hard to hide the hickies that he put on her neck. Now she is saying that she doesnt want to be with me or any1 right now. i was gonna ask her to marry me this week. She told me she needs time to figure out what she wants and that she still loves me and does want to spend the rest of our lives together. WHAT DO I DO

    What should i do?
    leave her and get over her
    Reply:why would you want to marry someone that cheated and lied to you how can you trust her how do you know that she wont do the same when your married its your choice you are to break up with her don't waste you efforts and your kindness on someone that doesn't deserve it well she had said she doesn't want to be with anyone at the moment and I'm sorry to be brutally honest about this but because she doesn't want to be with you and doesn't know how to let you go give her space and move on its hard enough trying to pick up the pieces after someone Tc good luck:)
    Reply:Let her think about it. Maybe go talk to her. She needs sometime to "figure out herself" and what she wants to do. Trust me, I bet that she DOES still love you, but right now she needs some time to think. Although, I bet that she would really like for you two to sit down and talk, too. Good luck
    Reply:She wants to keep her options open for as long as passable, I do not think you need a problem like this in your future do you?

    These behavior traits do not disappear, she will be like you see her now for ever.

    Go to different places and meet new people do new things that will enrich your life, not be some ones Yo-Yo.



    Good Luck
    Reply:YOU should be the one telling her that you need time and space to figure this out. Don't let her have you waiting and hurting when she did wrong, i say MOVE ON, she obviously is a lier and a cheater and not worth the pain.
    Reply:This is a dilemma. If you really love her, you could forgive and forget, but your relationship will always have trust issues.

    I honestly would try to move on, but I know that this is very hard for you, as it would be for anyone.



    Good luck.
    Reply:i know its going to be hard but you are going to have to get over her. you deserve someone better than her. whatever you do, dont go back to her. shes just saying you guys need separate time for the hickey to go away.



    im sorry bout your situation. good luck.
    Reply:hate to break this to u but if she wanted to be with you she wouldn't have been cheating on you. If you do go back to her she will just do it again. Move on and find someone who is worth yur time.
    Reply:Thats a hard decision. Once someone cheats, they usually always will. The trust just isn't there for you anymore. So what happens when you get married and she cheats? If I were you I wouldnt do it.
    Reply:omg, why didn't you just dump her and find another girl? I mean don't take it personally, but if I were you, I would have moved on a long time a go!
    Reply:wow i know you love her but geeze let her go... what a jerk she is.. you can never trust her again, if she did it once, she will do it again. sorry that means ending it but she is shady..
    Reply:Give her time

    I wouldn't trust her enough

    for me to marry her

    once a cheater always a cheater
    Reply:dump her sorry a** shes not good enough shes just useing u i wouldnt trust her if i loved her that much cuz your just ganna end up hurt iv been cheated on so many times and all it did was come back around and bit me in the @$$
    Reply:move on. You will never be able to trust her again.....



    She doesn't want to be with anyone buts wants to sleep around ...... AND spend the rest of her life with you??



    Sounds like you deserve better.
    Reply:Ask her to marry you. If she says no, tell her you can't wait for her forever. Then, move on. Ignore your heart ache and use your head.
    Reply:Give her time... if she doesn't come back then you know she's not the one. it'll be hard because its been 3 years but time heals all
    Reply:why didnt you ask to marry her earlier ??? maybe she needs someone more serious, she didnt want some1 who waits for 3 years b4 asking. I will do the same thing if you waste my time too much.
    Reply:how awful of her! forget about her and move on. if she'll cheat now, she'll cheat later.
    Reply:I wouldn't trust her again, she broke your heart :(

    but, it's up to you..
    Reply:SHe's a no good whore.....you'll be happier without her
    Reply:What you need to do is stop begging this girl you don't need her. She is confused over what she wants and clearly she does not want you let her go I know its very hard to do this but who needs this type of girl who can not commit to a relationship. I know for sure she will regret cheating on you but what you need to know and learn she has other priorities right now that do not involve you. Its going to be super hard to move on because you have been dating her for about 3 years but come on this can not be your excuse. You need to go out meet new people and it will take time but you will move on, You need to stop talking to this girl and keep no connection what so ever with her. I promise you if you go back with her she is only going to break you apart. Let her go who needs a hoe.
    Reply:Im very young but heres what "lovers" would do.



    If she's worth the pain;;

    If you really love her and you really want to work it out with her. Then just take her back. You need to keep a good eye on her and dont let her go NO WHERE by herself. Keep a close eye on her and wait a couple more years until you propose, because you never know she might just be the WRONG girl.



    If she's not worht the pain;;

    Then just leave her. Gather up everything that you had together, anything that reminds you of her and put together in a pile. Go out to your backyard and put up a fire. Burn everything and go out to the club and party. It will get her off your mind and you can be with friends and your social life.
    Reply:First off, I'm terribly sorry to hear that, it;s hard on ANYONE.

    If I were in your shoes, I would use the time that she needs to consolidate her thoughts, to think things over myself.

    Go over who you think she is and the person that she now appears to be. She seems to have issues, think about them, long and hard; can you trust her? Do you really want to be with her? How would things be if you got together? And, is it worth it in the end if she doesn't want to be a life partner.



    Call up some friends or family. Talk to people about it. Don't let this build up. Go see a movie, Forgetting Sarah Marshal is a closely related movie, but it is pretty funny. Do some things that you enjoy, do something things that you wouldn't normally do -- by this I mean in good practice, stay away from anything that will harm you --



    When the time is right, talk to her (if she will) and see if you can figure things out.



    I hate to say it, but it looks like a dead end; you never know though.



    But if you seriously want to try to stay with her, do some MAJOR thinking about it.



    I'm sorry to hear about your misfortune.

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    Need some advice?

    my sister and me were close when we were little but her vision gradualy went bad anyway when i was 10 she started bashing me and my mum then my sister was bashing my mum up because i found tablets in her bag that were mine mum anded up telling the police but they did nothing then a couple of months later she was having a figh with my mum and i tried to stop it but i got pushed on the ground and had to be rushed to osepital in sydney. about 3weeks later she chucked a bottle of detergent at mum's eye i took mum up to the hosepital and then becky tried to say i did it but i didnj't because if i did it i would have not taken mum to the hosepital but then in someways i wish i did it so becky would have not left because she was always mums favourite she never returned after that mum always gets a birthday card and mothers day card i always wish becky a happy birthday when i hear her voice in the suppermarket when it is her birthday i don't know what to do i just want my sister back

    Need some advice?
    I know that feeling sweetie. I have a sister that I love more than words can say ,but while growing up me and my mother had the problems. Your sister probably loves you more than you will ever know but it is very hard for her to forgive your mother for whatever she did to her. Finally , after about 5 years i called my sister, who is in Florida now and we both cried, because the love has never left either one of us. Even at family gatherings , like christmas my sisters and brothers go to my moms but i dont . but now all of my brothers and sister call me while they are there because they know why i am not there. Its not that i dont love them it is just because i can not get along with my mother anymore. I did try quite a few times but i give up. I love my mom also , but i just dont like her ways so therefore we dont have anything nice to say to each other and the best way to deal with it is just to not talk right? But please try your best to go around your sister one day without your mom around if you are able because you will probably be very shocked at the love she holds inside for you.!!! Good luck to you and i hope with all my heart that you and your sister will be able to build a bond with each other!!!!!
    Reply:i'm sorry, but what exactly are you asking?

    is your mom and sister always following you around?

    what's about this hearing her voice in the supermarket? are you just imagining things?

    I'm not just saying this to be rude =x
    Reply:Sure sounds like you have had a mighty rough life. I am sorry for that. There doesn't sound like there is alot that you can do to remedy this situation between you and Becky unless she wants to remedy it. It doesn't sound like like mom is being much help either. I take it that Becky lives in the same town as you. Do you still live at home with Mom? Does Becky come to the house to see Mom at all?

    Maybe you could get ahold of a tape recorder and make a tape for Becky and tell her how you feel and that you miss her and would like to have a good relationship with her again and see if Mom or someone would make sure it gets to Becky. Then you would just have to wait and see what she decides to do about it. If she does not respond, then you need to just accept it for now and move on with your life. You cannot force her to become a close sister again. If she is telling all these lies about you and allowing her friends to say these mean things to you...then she is not much of a sister anyway and you are better off without her.

    What does your mom do when she is with you and these friends of Becky's start calling you names? Does she defend you and tell them to shut up? If mom is not standing up for you, then maybe you need to consider moving out of mom's and going somewhere on your own. There are blind schools you can go to, or perhaps you can go and live with another relative.

    You sound so stressed in your letter and I feel so sorry that you are having to go through this. I wish there was something that I could do to help you!! I would sure be willing to try!! Write me if you want to to talk further.
    Reply:try calming down before you write so we can understand what you're saying!


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    I like one of my coworkers. I like her personality. She always jokes with me at work about cooking her food and bringing her gifts. For a while she kept asking me y I didn't make her breakfast. I kind of didn't know rather she was joking or serious; so I made her a really nice breakfast (pancakes, omelette, and ham) and brought it to work for her. Other workers exaggerated and told her that that breakfast looked really good and special. She really liked it, and she cooked me something a few days later. Now she jokes about buying her some mothers day chocolate and bringing breakfast again. So I'm going to do it, I bought the chocolate and a mothers day card (she is a single mom) and I'm going to bring her breakfast again. Do you think that I'm showing signs of liking her? I'm not really ready to date her yet, so I don't want to tell her I like her. But is it showing already?

    Will she know that I like her?
    It may be showing a little. You are doing what she's asking and taking her jokes seriously. So, it may show a little. It is alright if you show your sign of liking her a little, so there's nothing to worry about.
    Reply:Well YEAH. And I think she likes you too. Just keep playin it cool and things will set in place all by themselves. She may ask you.
    Reply:hell yes it's showin that you are interested...



    you need to start conveying your feelings to her now... start opening up to her about how you are interested in her...


    Are we all looking foward to going to wellington?

    My horizon, emma ross doing a turtle head in 17 degree weather, with a white car ;out the front going glog glog, and jamain going can we stay at rugby for the holidays, and chinchilla gospel, and my being fat and jackie next door going arrr the printer looks like a card and mothers day and all the stuff like that, so yeah, its so good arrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr kogan a little town dalby a town, havelock north a town, jandowe a town, chinchilla a town and wellington, yesm so yeah i have an essay and i am panicked arrr mrs huggo wont understand, how scary



    Advice appreaciated



    Cheers!

    Are we all looking foward to going to wellington?
    Hmmm Must be some good weed you are smoking, mate!


    PICASSA! NEED HELP FAST PLEASE x!!?

    I have just installed picassa and am making my mom a mothers day card by creating a collage on it. How do I put more photos onto my collage???



    PLEASE HELP!!! TYVVM x

    PICASSA! NEED HELP FAST PLEASE x!!?
    You need to select all the photos you want in the collage first.



    You can not select pictures from different folders, so make a new album to put all the photos in from different folders/albums.



    Click the collage button and choose the type of collage you want.



    As far as I know, you can not go back and add more photos afterwards since Picasa creates a completely new image.

    dvr

    Any ideas.... (10 quick pts.)?

    i'm making a mothers day card (a little late)



    and i need a good original idea quickly



    anything will do



    any ideas



    thanks

    Any ideas.... (10 quick pts.)?
    Make a coupon card saying you will do chores around the house





    i do that every year
    Reply:Simple,

    but it gets the point across..



    Happy mother's day (on the outside)





    Mom,

    You've been there for me 364 days a year, So i am here for you on this day. You have helped me through everything and you mean the world to me. I love you mom, happy mothers day.

    Love,

    _______(your name)

    :)



    she will love it.

    believe me.

    Simple things are always nice.

    %26lt;3
    Reply:Maybe include an inside joke in it to make it more personal -- she'll appreciate it more.


    HELP HELP!!!!!!!!!!! kIDS NEED HELP !!!!!!!?

    Alrite i take care of some kids at church and we want to make some mother day cards that are cut fun and CHEAP!!

    Please help give us any thing websites or just give us the steps what to do. thanx very much! %)

    HELP HELP!!!!!!!!!!! kIDS NEED HELP !!!!!!!?
    I found this site yesterday and I haven't looked through the advice properly but I think it's good advice. There are a couple of pages on the topic that you can go and have a look at.



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  • Cards for ex from kid?

    I divorced my ex when my son was about 1. He is now coming up on four - I have him about 1/3 of the time. Since he was two I've bought cards for the ex on mothers day, her birthday, Xmas, and valentines day for my son to give to Mommy. He just scribbles in them, but now that he's older he's excited to give them to her. I do this because I want him to get into the habit of doing this, so that when he is older, he can do it on his own. He also colors pictures here that I let him take for Mommy. Our divorce was ugly, and things have declined since then. She's been real bad lately - leaving nasty messages, and saying she is going to go after more support (already gets $1000 monthly) I'm tempted to stop having my son do cards and stuff on holidays for his Mommy. Whadya think. Part of me thinks that I've been way too nice up until now, the other part thinks that this is about him and her - not her being a bitc$ to me, and that I should continue enabling him to do stuff 4 her.

    Cards for ex from kid?
    You said yourself that your son is excited to give the cards to his Mommy. Don't let her attitude interfere with your child's happiness. You are doing a great job and you are not "too nice", you are instilling values in your son. Don't let her meanness make you be the "bad parent".



    Your son treasures these cards, so you continue being the dad that you are.
    Reply:You're right, you are split. You do have to be a different person for your son and for your ex.



    Continue to be a good influence on your son, keep that up. And fight when you have to on adult terms when your ex continues to hazzle you.



    If your child enjoys this and gets excited over it, continue to do it, it enriches your relationship with him. He'll remember how nice you were to his mom. He'll become a man one day and he will take notice that it was because of you.
    Reply:Continue taking the high road and buying the cards for your son to give to his Mom. When your son gets older and realizes how his Mom really is, he will realize what you have done for him. He will always appreciate it and will hold you in a special place in his heart.



    If things keep escalating between you and your ex, never ever say anything bad to your son about his Mom or put him in the middle between the two of you.



    Keep taking the high road, keep being nice etc. Believe me, it will pay off in the long run.
    Reply:I say be the bigger man. You are instilling many good values in your child. The last thing he needs is to see you be hateful. Bite your tongue and do what's best for him at this point. It will pay off later down the line.
    Reply:i think you are doing the right thing getting your son to give his mother cards and nice drawings and stuff while he is with you.



    i come from a broken home, and believe me when your son grows up he will thank you for being the grown up and being polite towards his mother when it would have been so easy to do what she is doing.



    believe me kids remember everything.



    your doing the right thing
    Reply:Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.



    Keep encouraging your son to write cards for his mommy. You will be setting a good example by being the bigger person in this situation, and you will show him that -- although his mommy may not like you so much -- you still feel that it is important to show her respect.
    Reply:I am sure she doesn't do the same for you.

    However, your son looks forward to this, so let him keep on doing it. As for the child support, look at the laws, you might be able to get it lowered.
    Reply:the cards are from him not you. You want to hurt her but if he gets really excited bring them to mommy you'll hurt him more. Keep telling yourself you are teaching your son to be a good person. And get your self a good lawyer and fight for custody of him. He needs the good parent raising him.
    Reply:I think what your doing is very nice.

    Too bad she's being such a (*********) about everything.

    Good~Luck to you and your son :-)
    Reply:Keep getting her cards. Show your son how to grow up to be an honorable man.
    Reply:If he looks fwd to it, I say continue doing it. It isnt hs fault his mother is a SNOT.

    I just suggest using cheap cards...LOL...
    Reply:No dont stop.. i know u want to cause well she's being a b***h but whats more important to teach ur son to do the right things, and the proper way of handling a situation.. or falling prey to her being an idiot and letting cloud your judgement on who u are as a father? Although u may buy the cards, although u may buy the paper and crayons that ur son uses to make things for his mom, its still suppose to be from him to her.. dont let her being an idiot sway u from doing what is right by your son. What ur doing makes u a better person, and a better parent.. dont let that witch change that about u..



    I think ur doing a great job..keep it up.. dont let anyone change who u are to ur child and right now ur on the path to being exactly what he needs a great male role model.. so dont let that go not for your x or anyone..
    Reply:If your son is excited about doing this for her, then you shouldn't take that away from him. In time he will see that she is not doing the same and may even ask her why not. That could be an opening for things to get better. But as it stands now, I'd say keep being the better person, in the end it will pay off for you. Good luck.


    I need advice?

    my daughter is 25 and says i dont stick up for her. i was filing for divorce cause of her. i would give up everything just to make her happy. she never sent me a mothers day card or not even called me. the question is, should i send her a birthday card

    I need advice?
    Yes,youre her mother,send her a card and let you know you love her....just because shes acting childish doesnt mean that you should...also...your daughter needs to grow up....shes a adult now...mommy cant fight her battles
    Reply:YES, YOU SHOULD SEND HER A CARD. BUT ON THE OTHER NOTE YOU NEED TO STEP BACK AND LET HER GROW UP!!! WHAT DO YOU MEN YOU ARE GETTING A DIVORCE CAUSE OF HER? IF HE DID NOT ABUSE HER OR ANYTHING TO THAT EXTENT THEN YOU ARE NOT DIVORCING FOR HER. SHE IS A GROWN WOMAN NOW AND YOU SHOULD BE ABLE TO LIVE YOUR LIFE AND ENJOY YOU ARE NOT LIVING FOR HER. MAYBE SHE IS USING THE GUILT TRIP THING ON YOU AND YOU SHOULD NOT FALL FOR THAT. YOU CAN NOT MAKE UP FOR WHAT YOU DID NOT DO, WHATEVER MISTAKES YOU MADE IN THE PAST YOU CAN ONLY START AT WHERE YOU ARE. SHE IS MANIPULATING YOU. IT SEEMS TO ME THAT YOU ARE DEALING WITH SELF ESTEEM ISSUES AND ARE NOT SURE OF YOURSELF AND YOUR DAUGHTER IS USING THAT TO HER ADVANTAGE. APOLOGIZE FOR WHAT YOU DID IN THE PAST AND MOVE ON IT IS UP TO HER TO ACCEPT OR NOT. BUT DO NOT WALK AROUND BEING GUILTY.
    Reply:If your daughter is 25, she's an adult. It's not your job to make her happy or file for a divorce "for" her. Clarify some boundaries for yourself and for her. You're not her best friend, you're her mother. Certainly send her a birthday card. Work on the mother-daughter bonding, but live your own lives. It's not good for you or for her.
    Reply:As a mother you need to show unconditional love. Of course, you should send her a birthday card, even if she never sends you anything. BUT do not continue to live your life around her. She is 25 and an adult, and why you would get a divorce FOR HER is beyond me. You need to start living for YOU!
    Reply:yes, shes your daughter. and until they have kids they wont appreciate anything their parents have done. do you remember the saying"just wait until you have kids". she might not thank you now but someday she might. so wish her a happy birthday and chalk it up for a future thank you
    Reply:Yes, you should because you are the adult and need to set the example, but you are filing for divorce because of her? I don't know the circumstances but that sounds wrong. Don't do it unless you want a divorce!!!!
    Reply:Send her a card, but don't get a divorce for her, the divorce should be for you, because you know it's right for you.
    Reply:Your divorcing for her? Hmmmm sounds like she needs to grow up and sometimes that calls for some tough love. You have to let her go and she needs to let you go so she and you can grow.
    Reply:Yes that is your daughter , just because your daughter is an inconsiderate spoiled brat doesn't mean you should be .

    She should be ashamed of herself treating her mother like this .


    Has britain gone stir crazy??

    Whats wring with britain today.

    Watchinh tv yesterday and they saying about a school banning mothers day card so as to not offend orphans. Just cos you dont have a mum doesn't mean you cant make a card for the person who cares for you.

    There was a primary school who banned skipping ropes in case there was suicidal child??? do children think of suicide at 5 or 6yrs, or are we just putting ideas in their heads?



    My friends mum was a dinner lady and she got into trouble for cutting a 5 yr olds food up for them.



    Anybody else worried about this or just me??

    Has britain gone stir crazy??
    Nah, that can't just be you. The school systems are so afraid of litigation they are going overboard to protect themselves from every conceivable possibility.



    We're getting some of that over here in the states.



    There is a "no touch" policy. Which means they can't play tag.



    Huh? We played tag as kids. We played dog pile and break the chain. We slid across the ice patches and ran into each other... Now they tell 'em "No running!". Come on! They can't work off their energy and then when they get back to class the teachers wonder why they can't sit still.



    Another kid "..fell on top.." of my kid and my kid thought it was on purpose so he hit him. He's in 2nd grade. They classified it as Assault and Battery. Just so you know, Assault and Battery is a term the police use when you beat someone up.



    We're ready to home school our kids. If I didn't think it might turn 'em into social retards we'd already be doing it... It's that or pay for private school.



    A~
    Reply:you should be ashamed for using a computer which emits radiation in such a close proximity to local children and youre damaging the environment - i need councelling for what youve done to me.



    seriously though - yep its all nuts, so i stick to one simple rule, i live inside my own little imaginary bubble and have nothing to do with any situation that doesnt already involve me unless its some sort of request for help from an adult who is willing to sign a release beforehand.
    Reply:Britain has NOT gone stir crazy, many of the people have though
    Reply:i watched the same programme.



    phillip schofield was fuming,



    my daughter is now 16 and when she was in nursery,they taught tem baa baa white sheep,as not to offend,then the only black kid in the class,i was fuming,i went straight into the school and demanded my child either sang the right version or not to sing it at all,that was like 13 years ago,

    people are now to afraid to speak up,incase they are branded racist.



    also teachers are not allowed to quitely have a word with parents,of whom children have nits,even tho they know who they are,and head teachers can only send out 2 nit letters a month,incase they offend people with nits..

    like doh....bring back nitty nora,the bug explorer



    this country is a complete joke...
    Reply:You're not alone in being worried....



    This wonderful Great Britain is going loony tunes with rules



    Protect our kids yes

    wrap 'em in cotton wool? Nah... how can they develop?



    We need to find that in between again... and stop spoiling our future generations, and allow them to grow...
    Reply:im adinner lady at my sons school.we dont have that level of paranoia yet!but its all too political i agree!xxthink we are lucky-we moved here to Sufolk to escape the Essex crap bout 4 years ago.wer miss the life but its the best thing ever 4 my son!!
    Reply:i saw that - it was on this morning. It is pc gone mad My son is in primary school and if he couldn't do up his trousers after using the loo i would go mad that no-one was allowed to help him and he was upset. And the fact that fooball in banned in a school because if the ball hits you it hurts - a lot of things in life hurt, kids have to learn. If the ball hit them in the face and it hurt they will learn to duck, it did the rest of us no harm! Most kids after a quick cuddle forget about the pain and run off to join in again. - oh yeah i forgot you can't hug kids!!! Give us a break.
    Reply:The basics of it is our very existence as British people is offensive to some twisted hyper liberal minds as this is never going to stop until we weed them out of positions of power



    Their thinking is we should be doormatts for everyone else because 100 years ago we were so so horrible to everyone else.





    Time to get rid of the hyper liberals/PC police and fast

    before they do anymore damage to the UK



    In terms of the effect PC policy has had on schools, they now cannot appreciate mothers day and yet are soon to be fed bias towards certain alterantive sexualitys in the forms of story books?



    It must be an Utter Nightmare in todays scools
    Reply:you are not alone my friend,it is silly,my mum has passed on but i still get her a little something like and ornamante or card, this is an ongoing problem like nits if a teacher sees a nit in a childs hair then they are not allowed to tell that parent as its classed as discrimination,thats prob y they are such a problem these days i wouldnt be offended if they told me my child had nits id wanna know.
    Reply:i would hate to be at school now. it must be sh*t. kids aren't allowed to play anymore. coming home with skinned knees etc; was part of a good day at school.

    too much " cotton wool " approach now. what sort of woosses will be about in 20 years time if they haven't experienced a bit of rough and tumble or the true facts of life ?
    Reply:I agree with you, its all getting so pathetic. Its gone beyond common sense now and into stupidity. The way things are going we wont be able to doanything in the future without risk of offending someone or breaking some pathetic and over sensitive helath and safety regulation. Why cant we just be allowed to be British and get on with our lives.
    Reply:I totally agree with you. Everyone seems paranoid to me nowadays. Frightened to do anything 'normal' in case we offend someone.
    Reply:Hahahahahaha, that is hilarious, and yes is would concern me, if I lived in Britain. Fortunatly, i live in America. God Bless.


    My mom is totally ignoring me just like she used to after she left me when I was just a little baby. I forgot?

    to mention that I had to go through living hell having to live with her during my 8th grade years up until I was almost 18. She used to let me crawl on the ground at her friends house with her friends snake on the ground when I was just an infant. I was told this many years later. Yet she still continues to ignore me even after my dad died in the begining of this year. Jan. 4th of 08. I just don't know how to handle this or her. How do I? I don't even want to send her a Mothers day card but I have to since I am living with her dad. What am I suppoed to do?

    My mom is totally ignoring me just like she used to after she left me when I was just a little baby. I forgot?
    you are an adult, so be your own person; and choose your friends even a mother.
    Reply:Just ignore her back. That would get on her nerves then she would have to talk to you. I wouldn't send her a card for mother's day even if I lived with her dad or mom. She will have to ask you why you didn't send her a card.
    Reply:wow, tough sitch. I'm sorry your dad died this year JAN. 4 "2007"! Anyway, I'd go with the person above.

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    My Ex is writing me from Jail! He knows I'm engaged but still has a fantasy that we are still together what 2

    how do i handle it he know i'm engaged what do I do? He sent me a mothers day card saying i'm his soul mate wow! that messed me up!

    My Ex is writing me from Jail! He knows I'm engaged but still has a fantasy that we are still together what 2
    By accepting his cards you're encouraging him to continue to write you. When you recieve the mail, simply write on the unopened envelope, "Return to Sender". He should get the hint.
    Reply:Good advice!!! Report Abuse
    Reply:Get a restraining order.
    Reply:Tell him that you have moved on and that you have no love for him. You two have a child together? That will make it a bit tough and I also hope he is not violent. Don't want him to go after you when he gets out. You may have to get a restraining order is he continues in the future for when he gets out. As long as your new man is there to get you through this you will be ok. Good luck and congrats on your engagement - I also plan to get married this summer.
    Reply:Contact the jail governor and let him know that you are receiving unwanted and unsolicited mail from one of the inmates that is making you uncomfortable. Tell him that you have asked this guy not to contact you, but he keeps doing it! Any letters you receive from him, either send them back unopened or tear them up and send back the pieces!



    You need to make it clear to this guy that you are no longer interested in him and have moved on with your life and are happy and planning a future with the love of your life, and your future doesn't include him!
    Reply:Let him know that under no circumstances is it going to work out. You have moved on and he needs to do the same. Tell him you would like him to be respectful of your decision and that you no longer appreciate letters containing love and affectionate messages.
    Reply:Don't acknowledge his letters. Don't write back, and write "Return To Sender" on them and he'll get them back and know it's not working.
    Reply:Write him back and tell him how you feel and tell him to stop writing and if he does keep writing to you refuse the letters and they will be sent them back to him and he will get the hint.
    Reply:You should explain this to him very clearly. Let him know that you are engaged and that you are HAPPY with your future husband. Ask him gently not to disturb you anymore. And tell him that if HE REALLY LOVES YOU he should STOP bothering you, and let you live your life.

    Try to make it clear to him that YOU ARE NEVER GOING TO GET BACK TO HIM and that he should live his life and leave you alone.

    I hope thisworks out, otherwise you have to report it to the police as violation.

    I wish u all the best and Good luck
    Reply:He is just playing on your feelings sending you a mother's day card. You need to ignore him because all you are doing is stiling up trouble for later. Don't be one of these worthless a_s_s women getting caught up in stupid bullshit like that move on ignore him and forget him.
    Reply:He is incredibly lonely and desperate for someone to be on his side while he is in jail. I would write him,



    "Dear John, You know I am engaged. The cards and letters you send are not appropriate. I want to be there for you as a friend, but will have to stop reading your letters if this continues."
    Reply:Write one last letter telling him it is over because....

    Then move house.



    He already has a soul mate....oh I mean a cell mate sorry. :-)
    Reply:you ignore him. return all of his letters unopened. just write "return to sender" on the envelope and the mail man will take them back
    Reply:Which one do you love the most?
    Reply:you need to tell him your engaged one more time maybe he'll hear you then tell him to stop writing you and also tell him that you found somebody thats trying to make something or theirself and your going to spend the rest of your life with that person and that there's no need to talk to you and maybe after that he'll stop calling for sure


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  • What are some ideas for a homemade Mother's Day basket~besides a card & flowers, when mom is diabetic???

    My mom is diabetic, and she really don't do much or really needs anything. I am clueless about what to get her for Mother's Day, but I was thinking about making her a homemade basket with some goodies in it... In the meantime I started a little project with my kids %26amp; nephews~~planting flower seeds and decorating the pots etc.. and a homemade card with pictures etc... What would be good to put inside the basket when the person you're giving it too don't need anything, is really not into anything- can't eat chocolate...Don't lit candles, don't do home spas etc... LOL- NO JOKE....She has almost everything...lol... Her house is like a store...lol... I need some ideas of what should I buy... I can buy perfumes because she never get tired of those, I would get her a bottle of wine- but she doesn't drink... I don't want to give her a gift card because that looks ridiculus and it'll mean more if I get something myself.... Any help would be appreaciated... Thanks...

    What are some ideas for a homemade Mother's Day basket~besides a card %26amp; flowers, when mom is diabetic???
    Buy some kind of platter, don't spend much since she has everything, a round pizza pan will do, and get a set of towels, in her favorite color, large bath, small bath, hand towel and wash cloth.

    roll them up, large on on the bottom, smaller one in the middle, roll the small 2 up together, make it like a cake.

    you can add things around it, or just decorations, one time i pinned little aplique bitterflies, wrapped it in tulle, it doesn't even cost much.

    go here and look

    http://www.thinkwedding.com/Art-Wedding_...



    there are some ideas.if not can you get her an outfit, or go out with her.

    your mom seems practical, like my mom, they are so hard, mu mother asked for filters for her ice maker in her fridge : )
    Reply:You can get the kids to help make her some special diebetic cookies. Maybe some nice face wash and moisturizer (doesn't every woman need that?) Does she like coffee? You can get a nice BIG mug and some different flavours of coffees.
    Reply:I was going to suggest candles and perfumed soaps and fancy bath salts..... maybe a nice CD. But i am wondering if maybe your mom is depressed. How about a book? Does she like to read? Happy Mother's Day!
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    Reply:I saw something at a craft show that was cute...it was a bottle for wine (there was no wine in it, it was just a pretty bottle at this point LOL), and someone took colored lights and put in it. I am a mom, and I think that would make a great center piece.



    Does she have any hobbies? I love to crochet so my sons (really their daddy since they are 9 and 7 LOL) know that a gift card to Hobby Lobby is always a safe bet. Last year they asked me what I wanted. I actually liked that because they cared enough to find out if there was anything I *really* wanted, you know? :)



    What about going to somewhere like that teddy bear place and making her a teddy bear?
    Reply:I had all the grandkids go to Michaels they had 40 percent off coupon this week and we did stepping stone mosaics for grammas outdoor garden or lawn.That way when they go to grammas they see the stones...it wont fit in basket.sorry!

    Some kids did all stones and other did foot print or handprint.

    what about some barcelet kits like from micheals she can make stone bracelets for grandkids...that would be fun for her and the kids.good luck!!

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    What are you favorite things to do for mommy to-be?

    So my girlfriend is about 7.5 months along and I do things for her all the time. I was just wondering what others might be doing for their significant others.



    Im liking let her take a break and doing more things around the house. I like to pick her up a random card, have her come home for lunch and make things for her that she used to make for me.



    I am especially excited about mothers day! I made her a card with pictures of her and our dog and cat in there and a picture of her with her baby belly and a little speech bubble coming off of it saying "happy mothers day from me too". I think she will love it.



    So what are you doing?

    What are you favorite things to do for mommy to-be?
    that is the sweetest thing i have ever heard...im going to cry...im a mommy to be also so i dont guess ill be doing anything lol.
    Reply:my husband always makes me hot baths with music and rose pedals, or buys me flowers or talks to my belly and makes me sppecial things like heart shaped cookies and stuff, try that, sex is always a good thing, very good feeling and a great stress reliever!!
    Reply:Personally, I think something that every pregnant woman would love is a prenatal massage. You have to make sure that the massage therapist is certified to give prenatal massages so it'll be safe. Also, foot massages would probably be loved too. Anything that is safe and pampers her body.



    (By the way, that card sounds really cute!)
    Reply:I think that you are a real sweet heart. No one took care of me like that when I was pregnant. I think that if you want to surprise her even more, get all the things together for a baby shower,invite all her friends but put her two closest in charge of things when you slip out and let them have a good old fashion girls time. After the party is over you come back and make sure everything is in order so she doesn't have to clean up a mess. (usually there isn't much of one any way). Just keep telling her how much you love her and that you'll always be there for her and the baby. I think she'll love the card too.
    Reply:you are very sweet!



    but to the woman who posted above me - i don't think pregnant women are supposed to take baths, are they? maybe check that out first...
    Reply:I'am sooo jealous! Wish my man was as attentive as you are.

    Perhaps a nice prepared bubble bath with romantic music.. accompanied with a nice non alcohol beverage followed by a nice body rub down with lotion. If you also decided to give her a gift as well...maybe a keepsake for her/baby...something engraved pehaps.

    As for me .. hubby has to work =(

    Good Luck! Hope your day goes well!