Need some advice?
I know that feeling sweetie. I have a sister that I love more than words can say ,but while growing up me and my mother had the problems. Your sister probably loves you more than you will ever know but it is very hard for her to forgive your mother for whatever she did to her. Finally , after about 5 years i called my sister, who is in Florida now and we both cried, because the love has never left either one of us. Even at family gatherings , like christmas my sisters and brothers go to my moms but i dont . but now all of my brothers and sister call me while they are there because they know why i am not there. Its not that i dont love them it is just because i can not get along with my mother anymore. I did try quite a few times but i give up. I love my mom also , but i just dont like her ways so therefore we dont have anything nice to say to each other and the best way to deal with it is just to not talk right? But please try your best to go around your sister one day without your mom around if you are able because you will probably be very shocked at the love she holds inside for you.!!! Good luck to you and i hope with all my heart that you and your sister will be able to build a bond with each other!!!!!
Reply:i'm sorry, but what exactly are you asking?
is your mom and sister always following you around?
what's about this hearing her voice in the supermarket? are you just imagining things?
I'm not just saying this to be rude =x
Reply:Sure sounds like you have had a mighty rough life. I am sorry for that. There doesn't sound like there is alot that you can do to remedy this situation between you and Becky unless she wants to remedy it. It doesn't sound like like mom is being much help either. I take it that Becky lives in the same town as you. Do you still live at home with Mom? Does Becky come to the house to see Mom at all?
Maybe you could get ahold of a tape recorder and make a tape for Becky and tell her how you feel and that you miss her and would like to have a good relationship with her again and see if Mom or someone would make sure it gets to Becky. Then you would just have to wait and see what she decides to do about it. If she does not respond, then you need to just accept it for now and move on with your life. You cannot force her to become a close sister again. If she is telling all these lies about you and allowing her friends to say these mean things to you...then she is not much of a sister anyway and you are better off without her.
What does your mom do when she is with you and these friends of Becky's start calling you names? Does she defend you and tell them to shut up? If mom is not standing up for you, then maybe you need to consider moving out of mom's and going somewhere on your own. There are blind schools you can go to, or perhaps you can go and live with another relative.
You sound so stressed in your letter and I feel so sorry that you are having to go through this. I wish there was something that I could do to help you!! I would sure be willing to try!! Write me if you want to to talk further.
Reply:try calming down before you write so we can understand what you're saying!
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