Dad's girlfriend/ Mothers Day?

So my dad has been seeing this girl for about 2 years now and she's awesome I love her. Mother's day is coming up and I wanted to get her a card or something; she doens't have any children of her own and I love her like she was my second mom. So, should I get her something? Or would it make her feel awkward? And just sticking to a card, what should it say? Just plain "happy mothers day" ?

Dad's girlfriend/ Mothers Day?
What a blessing - to have a great relationship with your Dad's girlfriend is rare %26amp; wonderful!



Get her a sweet card and write in it to her like you tell us about your feelings for her....that you love her and she is like your 2nd Mom. That will touch her heart and draw her closer to you (not make her do the opposite). She may seem awkward at first, but she may not be expecting that sort of response from you, so allow her to "catch her breath"!



And how does it do wrong to include a beautiful and/or thoughtful gift to go with the card? There are a multitude of gifts you can give to her: Bed Bath %26amp; Beyond, candle, flowers, gift certificate at a Day Spa, treat her out to lunch....the list is endless!



I think your Dad is one lucky guy - Both most important people in his life actually LIKE each other (if not, have love for each other, as she may also love you, too, as a daughter she never had). Keep your heart open to her, and continue to let her know that you care. Even if she doesn't act on it at first, eventually she will relax and begin to show how she feels toward you, too!



Happy Weekend to You both!

050908 4:45
Reply:It's cool that you like her but you don't give a mother's day sentiment to someone who isn't a mother. That's your dad's girlfriend, not his wife. The relationship may not be a permanent one.



If you want to show her your appreciate for her as a person, that's fine. Rather than buying a card for mother's day, you can buy one that expresses how much you appreciate her being around. Better yet, you make a card on your own to let her know how much you appreciate her keeping your dad happy. It would be inappropriate to get her a mother's day card but never inappropriate to get a card to say, "you're dynamite. "
Reply:You should ask your dad how Mother's Day makes his GF feel. Is she bummed out by it or does she not even care? A card may be a great idea, it would be better if you made it yourself, maybe draw a picture of a flower on it, whatever. Just use your talents however you want. Another alternative is to give her some daisies or carnations. I would stay away from "serious" flowers like roses until you really know if your dad and his GF are in it for the long haul.
Reply:That guy is an ******. Anyways I'm glad you like the lady tour dad is dating. So I would say yes to getting her something. Don't over due it because your own mother might get jealous but I think a card would defintly show what she means to you.
Reply:Is she a Mother? Is she your Mother? NO!

You are disrespecting your Mom by doing so and acknowledging her in that arena of Mom's

Go get her a Special Day card and explain in the card how much you care about her.
Reply:Get her a little gift. In the card, explain that she is like a mother figure to you and you appreciate her. She will LOVE it!
Reply:does she act somewhat like a mom? if she acts somewhat like your mom then totally, otherwise if she's more like your best friend then perhaps not
Reply:No she would like it
Reply:I don't know...that seems like it might be really awkward, especially if your real mother knew you did it.
Reply:hey i'm the first to answer this question...who cares?