What are some special ways he can make this day up to me?????
I feel like I've missed out on something important, even if it is just a "hallmark holiday" to some people.
Mothers day screw up.?
You have missed out on something! You weren't acknowledged for the new mom that you are....and in truth, he'll never be able to make the day up to you! It's too late for Mother's Day 2008. Yes it would be nice if he could find a left over card at Hallmark, or get you some flowers (which would likely be marked down today) or take you out for dinner.....but it would never be the same as if he had willingly acknowledged the day on his own. Even if you forgive him. when you are 70 yrs old, you will still remember that you weren't acknowledged on your first Mother's Day. Hopefully he isn't as inconsiderate on other occasions throughout the year.
Happy Belated Mother's Day to You!!
Before I was a Mom.....
I never tripped over toys or forgot words to a lullaby.
I didn't worry whether or not my plants were poisonous.
I never thought about immunizations.
Before I was a Mom -
I had never been puked on.
Pooped on.
Chewed on.
Peed on.
I had complete control of my mind and my thoughts.
I slept all night.
Before I was a Mom
I never held down a screaming child so doctors could do tests.
Or give shots.
I never looked into teary eyes and cried.
I never got gloriously happy over a simple grin.
I never sat up late hours at night watching a baby sleep.
Before I was a Mom
I never held a sleeping baby just because I didn't want to put him down.
I never felt my heart break into a million pieces when I couldn't stop the hurt.
I never knew that something so small could affect my life so much.
I never knew that I could love someone so much.
I never knew I would love being a Mom.
Before I was a Mom -
I didn't know the feeling of having my heart outside my body.
I didn't know how special it could feel to feed a hungry baby.
I didn't know that bond between a mother and her child.
I didn't know that something so small could make me feel so important and happy.
Before I was a Mom -
I had never gotten up in the middle of the night every 10 minutes to make sure all was okay.
I had never known the warmth, the joy, the love, the heartache,
the wonderment or the satisfaction of being a Mom.
I didn't know I was capable of feeling so much, before I was a Mom.
Reply:Remember that your fiance is coping with a lot of changes just now, too. He will be focussed on the baby and getting used to fatherhood, and he is probably also getting less sleep than he needs. So he may well forget it was Mother's day. Did he remember his own mother? He probably needed a gentle reminder that it was coming up. Don't be too hard on him.
Reply:mothers day is never a hallmark holliday,n whom ever thinks it is dose not hav a mom whom they love,,u were rote to feel hurt,n yes the bf should make it up to u n never forget it again,,so good ways to make it up?? fix u breakfast n bed or dinner,watch baby,,change baby dipers,anything n everything u do as a mother he should help u do,even win its not mothers day,,win u r young u think u cause u r the mommy,should do all this for ure baby,but it helps the baby to no the daddy to..so let him help,,good luck
Reply:Oh do be forgiving because he is new at this too. You got the one thing you wanted a beautiful daughter. Don't expect him to make it up to you, that is unfair. This Father's Day give him an example of the way you would like to be remembered and thought of next year for Mother's Day....Be a team and don't hold grudges....Pick your battles.
Happy Mother's Day!
Reply:Ouch...sounds like he cut you pretty deep. I think you should tell him he needs to make it up to you...and let him come up with the ideas.
Let him know he hurt your feelings.
Reply:um..is he the best person for you? Sounds to me like he doesnt care too much.
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