How to deal with mothers day.?

okay this is not traditional, no my mom is not dead and I dont hate her, actually I love her to bits.



But I cant stand the concept of mothers day, and she does not want to go anywhere. She will be working on that day and really doesnt want to go eat out. I dont mind and neither does she.

My dad seems really set on taking her out, being upset that I didnt talk to him about where to take her out since Im not working and we have been through alot (There has been alot of stress with me getting dismissed form college).

I have a feeling he only wants to take her out because he feels that way we will have to take him out for fathers day. He nows I do not like him as a parent and not so much as a person either.



These holidays are a wretch in my side.



My church is having an M-day banquet, she is going to that.

right now I have 10 dollars and gotta go out to find a darn gift. I lost the card so I have to get that too.



How can I deal with this? I hate it all SO MUCH!!!!

How to deal with mothers day.?
Hmmm, well, as a mom of four, I can tell you that I don't really care about eating out, the cards, gifts etc. What I do appreciate is a sincere thank you. Everyone wants to be appreciated, so think of some things you love about your mom and tell her in a card. Maybe buy her a single flower to go with it. My daughter just told me today how much she appreciates my driving her around to all her "events" like choir, piano, sports, etc. Maybe your mom cooks well, keeps the house clean, maybe she's a hard worker, or reliable, or supports you emotionally. Whatever it is, tell her thank you for it. That's what Mother's Day is really about.

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