How do you write a Mother's Day card to your own mom if you know that she's a bad mom?My mom isn't good at all

I don't want to hurt her feelings by not writing her a card.My mom has done a lot of good things for me in the past but the last seven years have been very awful.I don't want to go into too much detail as to what she's done bad.All I will say is that she yells everyday at me and my dad everyday and she said that she would divorce him but yet she still stays and my dad had a heart attack a few years ago so I'm very concerned that my mom's yelling is putting a lot of stress on him and it is very bad for his health.In a way I want them to split up because I can't stand her arguing over stupid things everyday and putting stress on my dad but, she does clean the house and cook for us while my dads at work and I'm in college but other then that there is no reason I would her them to stay together.It would be best for the 3 of us.If you think this is bad theres more bad things she has done this is just the beginning.I think she is even dumber then our current President Bush

How do you write a Mother's Day card to your own mom if you know that she's a bad mom?My mom isn't good at all
i do face this kind of problem

trust me the best best way is move



if u move, for sure there is a lot of things in your mind is released (this kind of people will never change, they will continue doing it)



good luck
Reply:cards, words, touch. they won't give a **** about a person that is decided to have a prideful attitude. They're just gonna be like a disease that is already incurable. Report Abuse
Reply:If praying isnt your thing, then dont sweat that. And you dont HAVE to love your mom just because she is your mom. And just because you show her love doesnt mean you will get it back from her in return. Personally you should make her a card just to try to keep some peace. It will piss her off if she doesnt get anything. So make her a card and just deal with it all until you can get out on your own. With any luck, she will change, but if she doesnt, theres nothing you can do about it.
Reply:hi! i'm a friend here in the philippines. y don't you pray for your mom? give her a card basing on what your heart wants you to write. tell her what you feel for her, that you love her and that you want the best for her. tell her that the best for her is to change, stop yelling if she wants to save your family from destruction. having divorce with your father isn't the answer to your problem, try having a family reconcilliation just as what my mom and i did. ask God's guidance, help and protection because he cares. if you did that and that doesn't work, well...the problem is with your mother...just never top praying for her.
Reply:You as a child should not think that about your own mother. You have to love her if for no reason but she decided to have you. Respect her because she is your mother. Show her love and she will just have to in return show you love.