She will likely withhold them from the kids, though.
It is unfortunate that whatever caused this rif between you and their mother is punishing the kids.
Can i send b day cards and xmas cards to my grandchildren,there mother claims harrassment,if i do so.?
Unless she has an injunction or restraining order against you, or unless you've already been cautioned for it, you can send them.
Reply:Unless you are under a no contact court order, I don't see anything she can do. Make sure anything you write on the card cannot be considered harrassment.
Reply:Well, what do you write in them? If it is anything instigating and provoking a problem, I agree that is harassment.
Keep it nice and sweet and you'll get more with honey than with acid.
Reply:why not?
Reply:horrible situation to be in. I have a friend who is not allowed to see her grandchildren she gets cards photos and writes them letters and keeps it all in a box that she will give them when they are 16.
Reply:yes
Reply:Who cares? That's insane. Do what you want.
I cannot see why a b day card and an xmas card would be offensive. Call me crazy but... I think that's a really nice, kind, thoughtful, etc. thing to do. I'm sure your grandchildren will appreciate it. I'd like to think they do. But I don't know about kids these days. I'd like to meet some good ones.
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