Should I send him a Father's Day card?

My boyfriend and I broke up 3 months ago. It was/is painful but amicable. Just last week, I asked him for no further contact (just too hard on me) He's a good man and I love him..I know it will touch him if I send him an e-card today. But, I'm afraid he'll take that to mean that contact between us is back on. I'm admittedly a 'pleaser'..I know he'll like recieving it. He sent me a Mother's Day e-card with a beautiful personal message last month. I hate to seem cold or rude! But, asking for no contact was the hardest thing, I hate to undo that. What should I do??



Btw, he's not my child's father.



Thanks for any help!

Should I send him a Father's Day card?
No. Do not send him a card. There is no purpose to it other than opening up communications. If he was your childs father then yes.
Reply:Well you are telling him to drop the ball and then you pick it back up and throw it his way. That is mind screwing and a control thing. Sorry, but you need to stop hanging on, it's not the letting go that is hard it's the hanging on that is hard. Time to live and let live.