My Ex is writing me from Jail! He knows I'm engaged but still has a fantasy that we are still together what 2
By accepting his cards you're encouraging him to continue to write you. When you recieve the mail, simply write on the unopened envelope, "Return to Sender". He should get the hint.
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Reply:Get a restraining order.
Reply:Tell him that you have moved on and that you have no love for him. You two have a child together? That will make it a bit tough and I also hope he is not violent. Don't want him to go after you when he gets out. You may have to get a restraining order is he continues in the future for when he gets out. As long as your new man is there to get you through this you will be ok. Good luck and congrats on your engagement - I also plan to get married this summer.
Reply:Contact the jail governor and let him know that you are receiving unwanted and unsolicited mail from one of the inmates that is making you uncomfortable. Tell him that you have asked this guy not to contact you, but he keeps doing it! Any letters you receive from him, either send them back unopened or tear them up and send back the pieces!
You need to make it clear to this guy that you are no longer interested in him and have moved on with your life and are happy and planning a future with the love of your life, and your future doesn't include him!
Reply:Let him know that under no circumstances is it going to work out. You have moved on and he needs to do the same. Tell him you would like him to be respectful of your decision and that you no longer appreciate letters containing love and affectionate messages.
Reply:Don't acknowledge his letters. Don't write back, and write "Return To Sender" on them and he'll get them back and know it's not working.
Reply:Write him back and tell him how you feel and tell him to stop writing and if he does keep writing to you refuse the letters and they will be sent them back to him and he will get the hint.
Reply:You should explain this to him very clearly. Let him know that you are engaged and that you are HAPPY with your future husband. Ask him gently not to disturb you anymore. And tell him that if HE REALLY LOVES YOU he should STOP bothering you, and let you live your life.
Try to make it clear to him that YOU ARE NEVER GOING TO GET BACK TO HIM and that he should live his life and leave you alone.
I hope thisworks out, otherwise you have to report it to the police as violation.
I wish u all the best and Good luck
Reply:He is just playing on your feelings sending you a mother's day card. You need to ignore him because all you are doing is stiling up trouble for later. Don't be one of these worthless a_s_s women getting caught up in stupid bullshit like that move on ignore him and forget him.
Reply:He is incredibly lonely and desperate for someone to be on his side while he is in jail. I would write him,
"Dear John, You know I am engaged. The cards and letters you send are not appropriate. I want to be there for you as a friend, but will have to stop reading your letters if this continues."
Reply:Write one last letter telling him it is over because....
Then move house.
He already has a soul mate....oh I mean a cell mate sorry. :-)
Reply:you ignore him. return all of his letters unopened. just write "return to sender" on the envelope and the mail man will take them back
Reply:Which one do you love the most?
Reply:you need to tell him your engaged one more time maybe he'll hear you then tell him to stop writing you and also tell him that you found somebody thats trying to make something or theirself and your going to spend the rest of your life with that person and that there's no need to talk to you and maybe after that he'll stop calling for sure
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