How Do I repair a Broken Marriage that We both know shouldnt have ended?

My Husband divorced me, after a 2/12 year addiction that I had, from an accident. He still tells me he loves me and he tells me that he misses me to death, but if he takes me back that he is afraid that things will just go bad again. I was arrested 3 times and while I was in jail the 3rd time, I took control of my life and I fixed everything that was wrong with me. I am very heartbroken that he didnt stick around for me to show him I could do the right thing. Now he tells me that he has trust issues and that if we were to get back together it would take some serious work on my part. We were together for 15 years and we have 3 children. I love my family very much and everyday that goes by is just even more sadder and lonely than the last. How can I rebuild my life with this man, and show him that I can do right. I know he loves me and I know he cares about me. He calls me, Texts me, and sends me mothers day cards my kids made for me. Please help me find some answers...

How Do I repair a Broken Marriage that We both know shouldnt have ended?
It is great that you where able to take control of your life.. So, many are unable to do so... As you know you should try and be sober for at least a year.. I would take it one day at a time..start seeing one another get to know each other again... take it from there.. if it is meant to happen it will..now maybe you have matured a bit more then before and things will be different
Reply:try counseling, that's one way, the other way is for you and him to find a chruch, then counseling. either way you will have to go through the couseling first b/c he's got questions that he needs answers to in order to trust you again!
Reply:i think that he loves yo still , but your right , he doesnt trust you , yo have betrayed him in the past and now you have work to do to build up his trust again, i think now that you are clean you know what to do to do that , goodluck
Reply:You were a monster once so your husband had to divorce to get you away from his kids. He did the right thing.



You could only do one step at a time. First, prove that you are drug free through regular testing. This will gain you access to the kids, eventually without supervision. The kids have to accept you back as their mother and you demonstrate that you are a fit mother. Next steps will follow, assuming your ex-husband hasn't found someone before that.