Mothers day for a mother you hate?

I've never had a good relationship with my mom since 3 years ago. My parents discussed divorce one day and I was so happy. When they didn't go through with it, I was more upset than you can ever imagine. She ran away from home one day, and when she came back I was changed. (I was only...eleven). She's done so many horrible things and yet...

I'm suposed to "make her something meaningful" for Mother's day.



I want to make her a card thanking her for ruining the past 3 years of my life every chance she got, but I can't. My father won't let me and I respect my father.



What can I do for a mother's day gift?!

Mothers day for a mother you hate?
You are going to have to forgive your mom. Otherwise, you will live your life harbor anger at her. Then when your mom dies in a car crash you can never let yourself forget how rude you were to her. It will ruin you. Deep down you know that you love her. Besides aren't you supposed to honor your mother and father? Look forgive and forget or you will forever be miserable. You know you don't hate her.
Reply:Just make a simple card saying...



Have a relaxed %26amp; stress free Day!



Happy Mothers Day!



Remember she did bring you into this world! Let what she has done to you make you a better person, you have the choice to be bitter or better!
Reply:Give her a card that says THANKS FOR NOTHING! but seriously don't let your dad force you if you feel that strongly about your mom.
Reply:Since you are only giving her a gift to please your dad ask him what he thinks you should give your mom.
Reply:get a card and write happy mothers day on it.because we all have to do thing and say things we dont mean.
Reply:There's a rumor going around that sons and daughters have a say if their parents can be married or not. Do you know what a rumor is? It's a lie.



The part about your mother leaving well that would understandably not feel too good but things will get better if you and your mother work on your relationship without allowing hatred to be involved. The relationship between you and mom can reconcile and yes, it's the proper and healthy thing to do. Mother's Day is a good place to start because she's your mother and you are her daughter.



You could make or buy her a card.

Include some pics if you have extras.

What does she like? I don't know your mom's interests or needs. And one more thing, how's about "I forgive you". Consider that while you are making her card etc.
Reply:She seems to be stressed out and upset about many things in her own life. Possibly she's suffering from depression or something like that. You may not like to be around her, much less give her a meaningful gift. But you do have to get her something that shows you care. It seems like you love her, but you hate her. I know how you feel, I used to have slightly similar feelings with my mom. I loved her but I didn't like her. And even though you hate her, it would be mean to give her rocks or something for her mothers day, she'd feel like you really hated her. And you do, but you can't show it. Make her a simple little card that says something like, in colored markers or something, 'Have a relaxing, stress-free mother's day:)' then prepare eggs and toast for her for breakfast. You may not really want to, but she's your mom and you gotta do something to show that you love her, even if you feel like you hate her. Well, good luck!



I mean, you must love her inside. She's your mom. She went through lotsa pain just to get you into this world. You came out of her vagina (unless she had a c-section lol). Doesn't that count for something? If it wasn't for her you wouldn't be here right now, even if you hate her.