Husbands: Are birthdays/anniversaries/Mother... day important to you? What do you do for your wife on these days

I'm just wondering if men still consider thier wives Birthday, Mother's Day and their Anniversary to be important days? If so, what do you do on these days?



I've been married for three years. Our first Anniversary my husband took me to the mall. Last year we went and spent some time in Gatlinburg but only because my sister invited us.. my husband didn't want to go, and I don't think he has anything planned for this year either (I say 'he' because I'm a stay at home mom so since I don't make any money, I don't get to make any decisions about what we do.. :( ) On my birthday he'll get me a card and something little which I really appreciate but he acts like he doesn't want to, like he's just doing it b/c he has to. Mothers Day he'll get me something from my son, but give it to me, in a shopping bag days early. He has never made this day special. We fought this year because he just wanted to go fishing. IDK.. do I expect too much? All I want is to feel special on those three days..

Husbands: Are birthdays/anniversaries/Mother... day important to you? What do you do for your wife on these days
I have been married 38 years and still consider the things like anniversaries, birthdays and Mother's Day. I always send cards and give a present or a meal out according to finances my wife understands that if we have little money then the gift is small and if we are well off the gift is bigger it is not the present but the thought that counts
Reply:Oh man... guys HATE mothers day. Absolutely lo9ath them. Honestly, its just another thing to have to think hard about a present, and waste time getting stuff for someone. We should get rid of the special titles and just make it a holiday.